My mother bear instinct has been aroused... again. The thrill of getting three kids (one on loan) to two different bus stops in the early morning, after repeated reminders for socks, hair brushing and backpacks is, shall we say, not so thrilling anymore. It sets the rest of my morning off with panic tainted rush. Then my ace-reader comes home describing that he wasn't allowed to bring a book home from the library. I investigate further...
"So what did they say..."
"Uh huh?"
They either said it was too heavy for his backpack... (What in the world? His backpack only has an empty lunchbox.) or that it was too hard for him... which makes me want to roar. I try to contain myself, I attempt not to cloud my child's perception that the school authorities are to be unquestioningly obeyed and revered. But... but!! This is INSANITY!
They haven't even tested the kids yet, to see what their reading level is, and yet they are making judgement calls. And I could read it to him--but perhaps it is too hard for me as well! I can understand for maybe kids who are left to themselves or something, but my kid is an achiever, and they just said--"you can't", "it's too hard!" I get so incensed about this. I want to sign a waiver saying my kid can have any book he picks... or call the librarians, or the teacher... or... hmmm?
I try to take a deep breath and think of the chain of command, or of going to the person who has offended you, or staving off the offense and giving the benefit of the doubt, asking questions; seeking to understand before being understood. But all I can see is red and I feel quite settled on the issue of my child... they are all wrong.
Of course, not so, but I do try to understand the situation and the hint of the learning ceiling resounds like our previous school, but I won't believe it--yet.
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